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![居莉叶的邮件9月1日（续）]()
So, I hope this reaches you. This mail I guess stops, but I would ask for a working one. You see, when we one day come to Beijing again we would like to pay our respects at your parents' grave. And then we need some guidance, I guess. We would be happy to meet, thanks.
Torben and Fabian feel with you as well, Fabian has known Youshu all his life from his first visit to China, and they to harbour fond memories from gatherings and companionship. They send their warmest greetings.
Dear all, we feel with your loss, but are happy for your great and growing family. That was a pride for your parents to see grandchildren and greatgrandchildren. Take good care of all.
Let us take the spirit of Youshu with us and keep her as a lantern.
With tears in my eyes, to the memory of my Chinese mother.
Hugs for you all, dear Chinese family
Fabian
Torben
and Julie
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![居莉叶的邮件9月1日]()
Dear friends, dear Pengshan, Hongzhi, Xiangdi and Zhengtian,
So sad to learn the news of your beloved mother's death. Though in no way unexpected - she lived a full life - there is something so final about death. And many thoughts and feelings. We her Danish family think so warmly of her, she was a special person. We are happy to know she is now with Luzhi. I remember vividly visiting Youshu and paying our respects to the shrine in her apartment. And now they together rest in Babaoshan, how appropriate.
I think of two stories. Your parents visited my parents in their country house by the North Sea. My mother was nervous - what to serve for sush distinguished guests? I said do as we use to, get a cod directly from a boat on the beach and prepare it whole in the oven. So we did. My father (born 1914) loved to have fish the traditional way as in old days in Denmark. A whole fish includes the head - most Danes wouldn't dream of that. Well, he did, and he thought he would give the guests a little chok. But guess what? Youshu saw the fish and exclaimed: May I have the honour to have the head?! My father was a little crestfallen for his joke felle to the ground - but naturally Youshu had the head, and naturally we were all so pleased and all so happy. What a wonderfuld story, never forgotten. Your mother is - not was - very special. A real lady.
The other one is from a great friend, Van Saichiu, founder of the Daloon factory in Denmark, famous for spring rolls. He came to Denmark for studies before WW2 and then had to stay etc. We were talking about Chinese ambassadors and then your parents. And so he said: Oh, the intellectuals. That they were - your mother's poetry. And I remember your father as well, his eagerness and bright eyes.
So, I hope this reaches you. This mail I guess stops, but I would ask for a working one. You see, when we one day come to Beijing again we would like to pay our respects at your parents' grave. And then we need some guidance, I guess. We w
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![写给爷爷——霓珂]()
爷爷，每一年，咱们都有好多日常。
元旦，我还是会坐在咱们家那个漆面的苏联小凳子上，和你一起听维也纳新年，直到拉德斯基进行曲。
春节除夕，我还是琢磨着您的冷酸鱼有年夜饭的一席之地。8点半以后他们都走了，又是我和你，和奶奶，咱们三个人一起看春晚，等你爱听的京剧节目过了，也就快要到12点啦。
过了节就要春天啦，你可要小心呼吸系统的疾病，这次听我一句劝，咱们不在门口车棚的王小敏那里剪头发了，去我充值的理发店试试好不好？
斯诺克世锦赛，好像是4月开始，我始终没明白这个难以掌握的球碰球的竞赛规则，但是你看起来却有滋有味，真厉害。
五一假期了，这次又是咱们三个家里蹲，但是给你和奶奶打电话的爷爷奶奶们一个接一个呀，你们能聊聊天真不错，我就自己默默看书就好。
天气一热，我一直想劝你两件事。第一在书房上网不开空调，真的很热，怕你开空调吹到，那就不要整坐一下午。第二，酱油汁的凉面真好吃，可是你也别再做了。煮完了，过凉水，还要用扇子扇，这工程量太大了，你等着吃就好。
眼看要换季了，这次你又给奶奶在淘宝上看了新的外套。真不容易，找到这种能符合要求的衣服，可是怎么商家又不发货了？还是我来帮你阿里旺旺一下，搞定这些退款换货的事情。
十一的假期长，总归咱们能有一天，和我爸妈咱们一起，再去开车走一遍百里画廊。感觉上次去你就挺开心，这次咱们也不费力气，走走停停尽随心意。
十一月中就要来暖气啦，在此之前你可一定要坚持一下，大风天就别出去了。门口小橘子还有苹果，我都能买回来。今天没有考倒你，周日是“袜子搁在鞋里呀”。你的弯梁捷安特我在车棚里都找到了，我的小绿车也在，放心吧，就是有点脏。
冬天，能窝在家里喝汤真幸福。昨天咱们吃的是你加了特别多土豆的红菜汤。今天又是老豆腐汤，可惜奶奶不喜欢，就做咱们两人份。另外你那个雍正王朝的有声小说给你下载好了，但是你能不能克制一下，少做点笔记，眼睛更要看不清啦。
年底你们支部又要开会了，又要吃饭啦。这次熟悉了吧，我还是给你打个专车，直接送你到鸭王烤鸭，门到门不会受一点风。这样我们才放心让你去。
爷爷你看 就是这些鸡毛蒜皮的小事，我随便一数，都能数出一堆。以前觉得习以为常，现在我真舍不得这每一天。想来想去，还是要记下来，因为这是咱们共同的美好回忆。
我真幸福，和你一起生活将近三十年。
奶奶有我们陪着，你好好休息吧。 孙女霓珂
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![父亲离开我们四周年，祭奠]()
我们敬爱的父亲于农历2017年8月23日晚上8时05分不幸与世长辞，享年80岁。父亲的离开，使我们深感悲痛和哀伤。我们永远怀念您
父亲于1938年2月26日出生于唐溪乡和平村，父亲的一生，是坎坷的一生，辛劳的一生。他出身微寒，但悟性很高，工作能力强，他虽然平凡、普通，但不乏思想见地，目光长远，过去、现在和将来都永远启迪着我们后人。他的一生伴随着国事的兴衰曲折，有过成功的慰藉和愉悦，也有过难言的隐痛与抱憾，生活给他带来了很多的磨难与艰辛。
父亲是勤劳奋斗的，他学历不高，从小山村走出来，作为安化县印刷厂的供销员，为开拓业务，足迹遍布神州大地。
父亲是高瞻远瞩的，他相继将四个子女送出农村，分别走向东坪、益阳和广东，孙辈还分别走向美国和韩国留学。
父亲是负责任的男人，他孝敬爷爷奶奶，努力建家立业，教导我们姊妹兄弟奋发图强、和睦相处。
父亲是生性乐观的，在全国的很多名山大川留下许多英俊潇洒的身影。
父亲是心地善良的，我清楚地记得，小时候，每年春天燕子南飞，他都会在屋槛底下，钉下鸟架，让燕子容易筑巢。有乞丐来，我们都是将新煮的饭菜施舍给他们，不会给吃剩了的。
敬爱的父亲，您应该感到欣慰，子女事业有成，孙辈也日渐成长、崭露头角。
敬爱的父亲，请你放心，我们一定照顾好你亲爱的妻子，我们敬爱的母亲，我们兄弟姐妹一定和睦相处互帮互助，子孙一定积极向上。
敬爱的父亲，请您保佑您的儿子建雄，王平，女儿梦军，建军，女婿良玉，智慧，外孙谭骏、外甥媳妇湘兰，外孙女黄思奇、外孙女婿龙庭、孙女王舒扬、王舒怡、王舒遥、孙子王子奥，曾外甥龙翊辰，平安健康、万事如意。
敬爱的父亲，您如同这冬日的暖阳永远温暖着您的子孙后代。
青山碧水长留生前慈祥成千古，
劲松翠柏永慰逝后思念照万代。
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